One cofounder turns every weekly check-in into a detailed account of their week. How do I stop that without shutting them down?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Agree on a reporting rule together before the next meeting, rather than repeatedly interrupting your cofounder in front of everyone. The rule should apply equally to every founder.

Use a lightning round: each person gets no more than 60 seconds to name their top two or three priorities for the coming week. This is a coordination check, not a report of everything they accomplished.

Then review quarterly priorities as on track or off track. Capture anything off track on the issues list. Save explanation for the issue the team actually chooses to solve.

A useful interruption is: "Is there a blocker or decision we need to capture here?" If there is, record it and return to the round. If there is not, put the detail in the shared update rather than extending the meeting.

Make sure brevity does not become avoidance. When that person's issue is selected, give them enough room to explain the relevant facts. Short reporting works only when meaningful problems still get attention.

Also check whether the long update is compensating for a communication gap. Someone whose work is otherwise invisible may use the meeting to establish that they are contributing. A shared written update can provide visibility without taking over the discussion.

The goal is not equal airtime for its own sake. It is enough information to identify dependencies, followed by focused time to resolve them.